sky of mind
Sunday, 12 March 2006, 12:48 am
QUOTE(rcorporon @ Saturday, 11 March 2006, 10:33 pm) [snapback]46888[/snapback]
If I got my Japanese passport and became a citizen, I would consider myself japanese.
However, most japanese would still consider me to be a foriegner.
I lived for a few years in a small town in central Montana.
No matter what I accomplished in that town,
and I did accomplish quite a bit in 5 years,
I would always have been an outsider.
After that I lived for almost 2 years on Oahu.
I was Haole. Generally in modern terms that means white.
But historically it means in so many words, a visitor.
But after a year I became Kama eina.
Which is a visitor that lives there. A non natural native.
Interesting because Hawaii is the most racist place I've ever lived.
It's a melting pot, and everybody openly refers to each other in racist terms.
Further more, no one minds being refered too in racist terms.
And I am accepted into the community, as kama eina!
The girl I dated there, is a long tall blond who has lived on the island since she was 5.
She will never be a Hawaiian. She will be Kama eina as long as she lives there.
Even her two children, who were both born there, are Kama eina.
Japanese is a race.
American is a culture.
You won't ever change your race to be Japanese, not possible, Even if you meld into the culture.
You will though if your lucky, have the equivelant of the Hawaiian Kama eina.
By the way Scorp. I honor your decision to move to Japan, for the time you are there.
The emotional depth the experience will bring to you is impossible to measure.
When I lived in Montana I wished I could be a billionaire,
I'd pick every 3rd citicen of that small town and pay them to live anywhere else but montana for 1 year.
The further away, the more extreme the culture shock, the more I pay!
Then these people with their experiences outside small town nowhere Montana would come back home,
and share what they learned!