tamara
Thursday, 21 April 2005, 7:19 pm
[QUOTE=Panda,Thursday, 21 April 2005, 7:06 pm] [QUOTE=tamara,Thursday, 21 April 2005, 5:17 pm]
I know it's a bit dark and both of my boys...20 and 17 thought it was really stupid. But they think
I'M stupid. Hahahaha. They are embarrassed by me and my political statements yet they agree with me. Just not in public. I'm going to continue speaking out and too damned bad if "mommy" just embarrassed them.
We'll see how dumb they think I am when I rescue them from the draft.

They are both politically aware, liberals, highly well informed, but extremely cynical. They don't believe that people will ever listen or change. [/QUOTE]
i have a son, too- my oldest- and he is much more like yours. it ain't cool to be a politically outspoken BOY... they are too busy criticizing everything that doesn't matter- LOL for example, i can't watch a movie with my son anymore- he talks all the way through it or snorts or laughs- 'yeah, right- that transfer truck could keep up with a ferrari' - you get the idea-
i think it is a guy thing - but don't worry- they do believe- they just can't believe in mama openly right now! LOL
boys fake apathy- they feel weak if they express emotion- so sad that our culture does this to boys- i'm assuming it is the culture or biology- i damn sure didn't do it!!! i love to run him down and give him a big ole smooch ('ughhh, mama, STOP') or call him on the phone when he's at work and tell him 'i love you, baby!' because he won't say anything back ('okay. bye')
boys.
as far as a sticker changing minds- i don't think that is the point of stickers, anyway! they are too short to teach-
BUT i think those who are silent and feel alone
are EMBOLDENED (is that a word?) by seeing similar views- bumper stickers do elicit an emotional response- and that is GOOD.
i think your bumper sticker is good. the only problem i really see with it at all is that those who (like me) have relatives over in iraq might have a bit of a visceral response to seeing blood on a yellow ribbon... it hurts a bit and seems a little cruel-
but i think it will do well-
-t-