karen
Sunday, 20 January 2008, 4:18 pm
QUOTE(rén @ Sunday, 20 January 2008, 11:48 am)

I do that, and I'm good at keeping my cool. If I'm not cool, I go for a walk. Then I respond. Lovely thing about message boards, really.
They have all sorts of ways of not "getting" the message, which leads one to the conclusion that discussion is not the primary interest. "Winning" "disruption" all sorts of things, but not discussing and sharing ideas, no, not that. A common response to one of my posts of clarification might be I like to talk to hear myself talking. Actually, I like to write, I point out. I'm not really very verbal.
Here's the main page of the new board:
Thom Hartmann ForumsHere's the thread I started with your youtube:
Who has to Sacrifice?And if you want to watch me struggling it out with a couple of trolls, try this thread, I'll start with the first post on the last page so you can see how absurd the argument can get:
renI make several summary rants of the previous argument up to that page, on that page, and if you want, you'll get a chance to see how they duck and dodge and jive around. For some background on the characters, Slab is a business owner in Seattle who likes to brag about his guns and his marksmanship, Loganthor runs an implement dealership in Portland, and he and Slab are friends, tend to work as a team. Hard for me to believe they are adults. Both have been banned, but allowed to return. They are much tamer now than they used to be.
I just found a way to embed youtubes in posts there, which I really like. Adds something special to the posts for me, a creative edge. Unfortunately it doesn't work here. Probably the administrator needs to add it to a line of acceptable BBcodes. I had fun yesterday with this thread, using the satirical comedy Duck Soup:
National Debt -- Hear! Hear! We need Leadership!Thank
you Ren! Very happy with those links.
I'm going to spend a couple of hours there tomorrow and am very much looking forward o it!
Sky:
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Is it any wonder that the American corporate media has marginalized and removed this man from contention?
In spite of the fact that this mans views more closely parallel those of the largest segment of our population, he couldn't even get the courts to agree to let him on the televised debates!
We're being herded like sheep to what ever trough they want us to feed on.
Right now that trough is the election.
I'm getting so tired of being manipulated by people who's only desire is to get more of what they already have.
That's why it's up to people like us to get the messages out. Funnily enough, I've just had this very conversation with my Ron Paul supporting friend.
We have to make as much noise as we can, in as many places as we can, so that hopefully, if enough join in, we will drown out the constant drone of the corporate media and wake people up to the truth!
I've just invited that friend here by the way, because he really seems to want to be involved in this sort of discussion. So, if we get a new RP fan in here, be nice/respectful to him - he's not a bot, just a concerned citizen, like the rest of us!

Ren:
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And so those rare moments must be studied too, in order to see if one can understand just what goes into them. I feel it's more than just the ideas themselves involved in those moments. It's a context of feelings, empathy, awareness, not just an "I agree with you." And whatever it is, it comes then, must be looked at then, because when that moment is gone, only the husk of it is left as a memory. If it wasn't acknowledged and seen fully, then recognizing it the next time means a kind of hit or miss hope that you will. Getting to it is a kind of hit or miss hope, too. We need to find out how to get to those moments of understanding with each other, because they are what make us strong, not these divided and conquered beings mouthing our road rage to each other behind the windows of our automobiles on the freeways as we herd back and forth to our cubicles in a corporate institution where much of our time around each other likely occurs.
I feel that the reasons we can't get to that sometimes have fundamental characteristics, like someone is bunkered down with their ego in a trench and will defend that fragile thing to the death. Or a more difficult to determine, someone is consciously aware of what they don't want understood to be understood, and become a conscious and shared sense of reality. After all, that's how culture is, a common set of understandings mutually acknowledged and reified on a daily basis
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You seem here to be talking about reaching the heart of the person you're in discussion with, as opposed to their ego. You're right of course, if a person is so wrapped up in ego it can be very difficult to have an open and frank conversation with them. But if those involved in the discussion are willing to recognise the humanness in the other(s) and respect that, then there is something solid there to build on, because an honest conection has been made, and that's what we humans are all about.
Seuss:
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There are a few direct action subscribers here, but many have left, due to unstoppable rhetoric of those who don't physically act, and assume that ranting over and over again on the internet, dodging direct questions and formulating their own talking points is some form of world - changing activism...
I'm sorry, I'm not going to bash anyone specifically, as I don't want to hurt any feelings, so I won't name names. If you'd like to know what I'm driving at, read through some of the more prolific threads, and you might figure out who's worth the effort and who isn't. There are some (or were some) here that would travel hundreds of miles to aid in a protest, or have created a kindered one in their own locale, but right now, they're few and far between...
unless they don't live in the us...
Sweety, we each have our part to play even if that's sometimes not easy to see. Frustration gets to us all from time to time, so I completely understand yours, but one of our more prolific posters here seems tto give a lot of personal support to the Mod, and that, I'm absolutely sure, is invaluable.
All boards go through their phases... different characters come and go. Some are more missed than others, they're the ones we hope remember us kindly.